On March 7, 2016 (the day before what would have been his 70th birthday), the family of Special Forces SGT Alan Boyer received news that his remains had been identified and were coming home. The only surviving member of his immediate family is his sister, Judi Boyer Bouchard, who has never stopped searching for her brother. She describes the pain of not knowing what happened to her brother: “When you don’t know, it’s just like this open wound, a day doesn’t go by when I don’t think about Alan and wonder what happened.” Before their parents died, they too remained hopeful that one day their son would be found.


The following was written by Judi Bouchard to her friends and family:

“On March 16, 2 Army Special Forces soldiers, the Chief of Casualty operations Center for the Army (Mr. Mee) & 2 other Defense Department personnel (one was Gen. (Ret) Michael Linnington, Director Defense POW/MIA Accounting Agency (DPAA), and the other Jack Kull, who while working for DPAA became a dear family friend)-5 total– came to our home to give me the official report. The remains had been given by 3 Lao Nationals (remains traders) to an activist in Laos who turned them in. The DNA match to the samples Mom & I gave many years ago were truly amazing. The lab said it is the strongest match they have seen yet!  I received a thick report with many more details.  I was also presented with Alan’s medals –including the Silver Star (3rdhighest military decoration awarded) and Purple Heart.”