The massacre of 141 children and staff at Peshawar’s Army Public School in Pakistan has shaken much of the world. The images of bloodied children being carried to ambulances by paramedics, parents, and good samaritans have once again flooded our television screens. But only for a few moments. In Nigeria this past summer, many took to Twitter in an almost cringeworthy campaign that reduced the value of engagement in humanitarian causes to a catchphrase and a hashtag.

Even as the United States has rounded the corner on 13 years of battle in neighboring Afghanistan, the unspeakably horrific images of children being pulled from the wreckage of the school conjured up images of massacres in Oklahoma City, Beslan, Columbine, and Newtown.

The terror reflected in the visages of rescue workers, the determination of the first responders, and the bloodstained faces of children carried from the school bear an almost surreal resemblance to an all-to0 frequent scene in recent years. Yet, disturbingly, not enough conversations or Internet discussions reflected any sense of urgency regarding the massacre. Perhaps it was caught in the media wake of the events in Sydney, Australia over the weekend. Perhaps not.

Perhaps Westerners have grown a bit too accustomed to stories of horrific massacres, bombings, and attacks from Afghanistan and Pakistan, such that even such otherworldly violence as that perpetrated on the young innocents in Peshawar on Tuesday can pass by with nary a second glance. This is not to say that our hearts weren’t made heavy with the horror that we all vicariously experienced through the terror-saturated eyes of mothers and fathers standing outside of the smoldering schoolhouse.

This is to say that perhaps many of us have become too willing to accept and absorb such images as normal. Is this a reflection of a bigger problem? Is our almost subconscious acceptance of scenes bearing great carnage a Pavlovian response to stimuli over decades of saturation? Yes. Is it a valid excuse for the average citizen’s failure to remain current on important international events? No.

The rift between the average Westerner and those fighting in Afghanistan and Pakistan throughout the past 13 years has grown to become a canyon. Many writers have noted the incomparably small percentage of Americans who have served in Afghanistan, and many veterans and soldiers have written of their disdain for civilians who they perceive as inadequately sensing the urgency of the fight in the two countries. Many veterans, their views sharpened by close proximity to the Afghan people in particular, have had their world views reshaped, their understanding of life re-conceptualized, and their vision for what the world is becoming slashed and sliced open.

Many return home feeling an affinity and a kinship not with those back in the United States and in other Western nations, but for a people left disregarded by the international community—a people whose pain is matched only by those in pervasively unrelenting war zones such as the Central African Republic, South Sudan, Ukraine, Mexico, Libya, Iraq, and Syria. Yet the headlines aren’t filled with the suicide bombings, attacks, and senseless murder that occurs almost daily in Afghanistan and Pakistan. Why is this? Many veterans have asked this question repeatedly. The replies are often little beyond a simple “we appreciate your service,” or “it really is Hell over there, isn’t it?”

It is not difficult to sympathize with the average American’s ignorance of war in the aforementioned areas. Many Americans are now working twice as many hours for half the pay. Family lives dominate what little free hours a working man or woman finds gifted to them on evenings and weekends. The opportunity to read in-depth and researched pieces on the West’s conflict with Russia, the ongoing conflict in Ukraine, the terror of the wars in Syria and South Sudan, and the spreading instability in Iraq is nonexistent for many Americans.